Marriage advocate offers petitions to Vatican addressing marriage abandonment

 Catholics who want to curb divorce are providing a way for faithful spouses to invoke the authority of their Church to intervene. Pope Benedict XVI recently reminded the Church of her responsibility to practice fraternal correction. Mary's Advocates (a non-profit organization) is offering a "Vindicate Rights Petition" so that any spouse can ask the Church to exercise pastoral discipline in their particular marriage. The petitioner can entreat the local diocesan tribunal and appeal to Rome if rejected.

Twenty-three percent of adult Catholics have experienced divorce, according to a 2007 survey commissioned by the USCCB. "We need to start calling divorce by its proper name which in most cases is simply marital abandonment," says Bai Macfarlane, founder of Mary's Advocates that distributes the "Vindicate Rights Petition." She was divorced from Catholic author Bud Macfarlane in 2003. 

In Pope Benedict's  2012 Lenten message, he teaches, "'Being concerned for each other also entails being concerned for their spiritual well-being. Here I would like to mention an aspect of the Christian life, which I believe has been quite forgotten: fraternal correction in view of eternal salvation."

Macfarlane says, "We see too many pastors undermining fraternal correction in cases of marital abandonment. With these official petitions, we hope to help bring an end to the scandal caused locally by the response of priests and diocesan staff personnel in the face of no-fault divorce. Many faithful spouses may need to appeal to the Vatican to effect change."

Two canon lawyers reviewed the "Vindicate Rights Petition."Philip Gray, J.C.L, says "in the vast majority of cases today, divorce has become an 'easy out' to avoid responsibility, pass blame, obtain revenge, or somehow justify problems in the marital relationship or between parents and children."

Canon lawyer Fr. Chuck Zmudzinski, C.P.M., J.C.L. explained, "I worked in a marriage tribunal for about five years and one of the reasons I eventually quit was because I did not agree with how strongly biased the tribunal officials seemed to be against the bond of matrimony."

"I think marriage difficulties are handled, for the most part, with too little regard for the objective importance of marriage for human society and for the Church," Fr. Zmudzinski said, "and with too much of an emphasis on the subjective happiness of the person who is asking for an annulment so that he or she can remarry."

"Now that almost every marriage that appears before the Church's tribunals in the U.S. ends up being declared invalid," Fr. Zmudzinski continued, "I fear that many pastors take the side of the spouse who wants to divorce and remarry and actually encourage divorce and annulment, leaving the abandoned spouse with little or no recourse, and the children of the broken home are the greatest victims of this injustice. I would not want to be a pastor or tribunal judge who will have to answer to God for all the pain and suffering the children of divorced parents experience because of the divorces that could have been prevented with strong, pastoral leadership."

The "Vindicate Rights Petition" helps an abandoned spouse to officially solicit such pastoral leadership. It includes line-by-line instructions for petitions to the diocesan tribunal and bishop, cover letters, and template letters to appeal to Vatican tribunals. The Petition's instructions describe the attitude of a typical petitioner, "The cover letter expresses your hope that, after being authoritatively instructed by the Church of his or her obligation, your abandoning spouse will choose to reconcile your marriage and even seek counsel from a good spiritual director, marriage coach, or marriage counselor."

Canon lawyer Philip Gray says, "The legal and doctrinal foundations for these petitions are well established. In my opinion, unless a petition in a particular case suffers from a defect identified in law, these cases should be accepted and heard. Not doing so would express a departure from the expectations of the Natural Law and the Ordinary Magisterium of the Church."

Fr. Zmudzinski cautions, "I am concerned that all too often the primary pastoral response to a troubled marriage is to encourage divorce and subsequent annulment, even in cases when such a course of action would result in a grave injustice against the abandoned spouse and the innocent children whose families and lives are broken by the divorce. In such cases, there should be a serious effort by the pastors to bring the offending spouse to repentance and save the marriage."

Mary's Advocates explains in the Petition's introduction, "Unless admonished by the Church, your abandoning spouse gives the impression to everyone that it is not wrong for someone with a Catholic marriage to abandon marriage or force a divorce upon the family, or coerce the faithful spouse into divorce against his or her will."

A Zenit news story about this year's Papal Lenten message quoted Cardinal Robert Sarah, who introduced it: Cardinal Sarah recommended seeing the Church's activity in the world in light of 'fraternal correction in truth and charity.' [...] 'The Church is moved by a sincere concern for mankind and for the world. Her activities are not moved by a desire to condemn or recriminate, but by a justice and mercy that must also have the courage to call things by their name. Only in this way can we expose the roots of evil, which continue to intrigue the mind of modern man.'

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